Last week, i published the first part of this article. It is an answer to a commonly asked or pondered upon question by women. For those who took out time to read through and also shared, thank you. Here is the second part and conclusion of the article.
Enjoy your read, and please if you feel that any part of it offends your sensibilities, i do apologize.
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Things Men look for in an ideal girlfriend/potential spouse?
By Austin - Freelance writer and fashion stylist
A lot of
women think that quality and emotionally stable men do not exist. Believe it or
not, they do and they aren’t looking for the all-too-perfect woman, supermodel,
or girl the girl next door with gigantic boobs and ass, but for an ideal match;
a woman who is down to earth, not selfish, sweet and sensitive to his needs and
understands how he thinks and acts in line with that thinking towards women.
Men want a woman who…
11. Does Not Need Him But Desires Him
Men do
not want a woman who needs them out of desperation. It’s a turn off for most
guys and it leaves men questioning what the woman’s real intentions are. Every
man loves a little chase in their attempt to get a woman. Most men do not take
seriously a woman that’s desperate or comes off as easy to get. When a woman
does not need a man but desires him, he knows that she wants him for who he is,
and not what she can get from him and this ignites a man’s desire to chase her
till the ends of the earth just to have her.
Research has shown that most women who do not
have a good relationship with their fathers do not have stable relationships.
This kind of women usually date older men, and deep down, they are looking for
a fatherly figure, not a boyfriend or husband and they tend to disrespect
younger men. Initially, a man might like how she looks up to him for
approval, and the answers to all her
questions, but with time he realizes he wants to be with a real woman, not
someone who is stuck in her teenage aspirations, trying to get Daddy to notice
her.
13. Is
Supportive
All
though most guys want to handle it all and assume their superman state, even
the strongest men want a soft place to fall, a shoulder they can lean on, a
help mate, a confidant, someone to talk to when they need to be heard. Most
guys want a woman that will support them in all of their life choices, a woman
who would stick on in good and tough times. Sometimes as small it may appear, a
simply saying “No matter what, just know I’ll stand by you” goes a long way to
reassure him that he is with the kind of woman he should spend the rest of his
life with.
14. Not
materialistic
No man
wants a woman who is only after the material gains a woman can get from him. He
wants to be your sole provider, protect you with everything he’s got, but that
doesn’t give the woman an opportunity to treat him like an Automated Teller
Machine. A woman should rather help a man manage his finances profitably other
than selfishly manipulating him for material gains. If you are the type of
woman that is always asking for things you need and don’t need, and can even
provide for yourself, you’ll leave him with no option but to treat you like a
whore on the street.
15. Prays
for him
Nothing
is more convincing that a woman truly cares about what goes on in a man’s life
like when she prays for him. Women who pick up the phone to call their man just
to say “Honey, I just felt a need to pray for you…” and pray for their man are
considered irreplaceable and rare to most guys. Men feel that reassurance in a
relationship when a woman prays for them and this builds their confidence in
such women.
16. Who
can Cook.
An
African adage says “The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach”. Every man
loves good food. Every man loves a woman who can cook. A man cannot be stuck in
his bachelor thrills of eating out all his life, eating a meal specially
prepared by the woman in his life is something everyman craves.
17. Is
Independent
No man
wants a woman who they have to reassuringly call, text or visit every five
minutes. Most guys love their space sometimes and would appreciate a woman who
respects that. Men love who allow them time to hangout with the boys for that
football match, or go visiting an old time pal. If a woman doesn’t give her man
space and she’s all over his face and business, he will find a way to get it,
even if it means breaking up with her.
18. Likes
and wants sex.
Men like
and want sex, unless they are celibates. They like to have passionate sex with
a woman who is comfortable with her sexuality, enjoys sex with him, not afraid
to let him know, and communicates to him how she wants it. Men do not like
women who just lay back and let them do all the foreplay or just lay back like
a log while they do all the grind. A man looks for a woman who will positively
respond to his desire for her instead of rejecting him, and this is one thing
we look out for when considering a woman for marriage, because no man would
like to sign up for a till-death-do-us-part years of boring sex life.
19. Spontaneity.
This is
as important as the relationship itself. It’s the juice of every relationship.
It’s what keeps the spark going. Men do not like women who get stuck on a
particular routine for so long. They hope and wish to see everything they like
about women in one woman. This could be the way she dresses; a good and
versatile sense of fashion and style, her ability to come up with romantic and
engaging ideas, her ability to bring something new on the food menu. Men love
women who can keep the fire burning in the relationship.
20. Sensuality
As
mentioned earlier, it’s not all about the looks, all though it is a point of
attraction for some men, it’s more about the air of sexiness and confidence
which the woman broods, that will attract a man to his ideal woman. Most men do
not like women who come off to them as men; tomboys. Men like women who totally
embrace their femininity and are comfortable in their sensuality. Most men see
women who wear stilettos, lingerie, skin tight girly jeans trousers, LBDs, more
sexually attractive than women who wear big T-shirts, baggy trousers, men’s
clothing, boots etc.
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